Author: Aaron Snobel

When I first met my intriguing and cute Wife it was actually on a virtual chat site called ‘Chat-avenue’ She had posted to the general chat about something Rogers… and that she was you know a she. So I reached out to her…asked her if her name was Rogers? She laughed and corrected me. Alacia. The most endearing name ever! I was hooked then and there. I mean I could probably dwell on some of the things that we talked about but suffice it to say I was hoooked, line and sinker! She had me. We took our chat off to Facebook where we talked non stop like day and night. I was fond of her. I mean I didn’t perhaps have a total understanding of what it meant to fall head over boooots over someone then? But I did. I totally did! I would dote on her sending her gifts that meant something.. like her favorite cereal Honey nut cheerios.. so I got her a case of family sized honey nut cheerios haha. Or teddy bears and carrot sticks and other little things or personal mementos.. Things she could have taken with her where ever she might go..which was hopefully right into these arms of mine. And Was! We met around December 2016 and we spoke until september 2017 when I convinced her it might be cool to meet in person.. if only for a week? So that’s what we did!

My Wife is fond of using the following phrases:

• “Forever & Always” “Always & Forever”
• “Totally!”
• “Oh Aaron!”
• “Head Over Boots!”
• “My sweet adorable Aaron”
• “Charming!”
• “All That and A Bag Of Chips”

In a typical day while going through our honeymoon phase and on going.. she was a ‘Constant Thought! I would think of her in all things ‘

When I first laid my eyes on Alacia my very first impression of her was a series of thoughts, “Oh she’s strong! And good looking too” To be honest she had just gotten off the bus was carrying lots of bags and I was nervous! sooo nervous. But she was everything I had expected and then some. I mean I knew what she looked like so the very first impression would have been on a facebook videochat.. We laid eyes on each other around December…so she had a mini xmas tree in the background…and I was caught up with her eyes. mesmerized. Blue! I don’t know if I got like a subconscious thing with blue? But dang I appreciate seeing those baby blue eyes of hers. Her lips and her smile was divine! But the very first impression i seriously had was a Lady who looked sad. She had unshed tears in her eyes. But while we chatted frequently online before her very first visit to me? That sadness sorta evaporated. She would be listening to music… and singing along. As our relationship, which started off virtually, evolved? She was getting happier and happier. and I know her parents saw that too. I was very intrigued to say the least.

The day we met in person was overall amazing in every way, hands sweating, heart racing, it was one of the happiest moments in my life! To be honest I have been in and out of relationships, had my heart broken twice! GRRR. The last relationship I had was with this girl who I spent the year after our breakup pining over inside my first apartment in this city, London. I mean I was bawling my eyes over her! But yea…it didnt work out. and in fact there was equal blame there really. That past relationship which holds no bearing here and now… was not meant to be…and that’s fine. This relationship with my forever & always?! That’s everything to me. I put my dukes up when I realized what happened. I wanted her back and perhaps went about it the wrong way…but it was all I knew. I totally fell head over boooots with my Wifey. And I guess it took some time for me to fully realize and appreciate what I had with her. She and I were soooo close! And will be again, or so I hope and will. She is my everything. I know everyone that knew us saw that in me and her.

Some of my most favorite things I have done with my Wife and miss doing with her as I write this… would be holding her hand, taking showers together (OMG! YES!), having our morning coffees and breakfasts together joined with lively conversations about just about anything under the Sun, nighttime snuggles, Hair Brushings (I would brush her hair you know when asked maybe offered sometimes too..it became part of our routine) good morning/night kisses well anytime kisses! Our adventures…we went fishing, swimming at a beach, frigggin our smoke shack. I absolutely love Alacia. ‘Totally and completely! and Unconditionally!’

After writing out these past few paragraphs 10 random words that come to my mind would be:

1. Delicious
2. Alone
3. Teardrop
4. LouLouuuuuuu!
5. MMMMmmmmmm
6. Goood
7. FUCK!
8. Dammmmit!
9. WHERE?!
10. WANT

Alacia Renee Williams I love you..because you actually put effort into me. You come to my defense and put yer dukes up too for meeee! I love you because nobody has ever given me the love that you have given me and you are the only one that could ever love me this way. I love you because you always make me feel that I am worth something….Anywhere we go…you would always be right by my side…Loving up on me…making me feel goooood. I mean not just a lil goood…but like GRRRRRREAT! You had my back as I had yours in other words. From the very first moment when you stepped offa that bus… to even now…even tho 1500 miles or so separates us.. I sense you…Feel the vibes you be sending me as I you. I love you because you make me smile…and bring joy to me in everything we ever did and then some. I love you because you have a huge and honest heart. I love you and every little detail about you.

I love you because you are simply you…My LouLou! <3